Remember that when one door closes, another opens, do not get stuck and leave the past where it should be, remember that the only and most important your life is you.
Reasons you shouldn’t get back with your Ex
Confidence
When we lose confidence in the other it is a feeling that can not quickly replenished, if someone is unable to fulfill promises small, not big promises fulfilled. We should not let those little details which can then become grudges.
Loneliness
Do not let this feeling makes you fall into the same. Maybe it's easier to see the past and think of how happy they were, however, remember that there were also moments of discussion and anger, so put in a balance all your feelings.
Dignity
If you have been abused physical, emotional, verbal caused by that person, there is no reason to return. These behaviors usually do not change, you can say yes and swear that will change, but if it happened once not have to wait for a second.
Evolve
We are always changing, and if that change occurs while you and your ex are separated, it is impossible to return to what "already had". Even if the relationship was wonderful at the time, the time is over. Do not try to turn back time.
Pretexts
Do not use things that still remain tied in some way to return with him as a debt, children or any pending case, just focus on what you need to solve and severs ties once and for all.
Old habits
What you did not like before, you will not like now. Sooner or later you'll fall into the same as always: same fights, same behavior, same relationship ended for a reason.
Infidelity
Infidelity is not easy to overcome because the person who really loves you as they say; just do not unfaithful. If you forgive and happens again, there is no reason to continue a relationship, besides the "ghost" will always haunt.
Stagnation
Clinging to the past never bring anything good. The changes, however, are difficult at first but always end in something good. Take the opportunity to learn about other things and other people. You never know who may know tomorrow.
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